Jennifer Lopez and Jennifer Garner Clash Over Ben Affleck: Insider Spills the Drama

Jennifer Lopez and Jennifer Garner are reportedly at odds over how Ben Affleck divides his time, leaving the Gone Girl actor caught in the middle of a complex situation.

According to a new report from In Touch, Affleck is navigating a challenging dynamic as the two Jennifers—his current wife Lopez, and ex-wife Garner—pull him in different directions.

A source close to the situation revealed, “Ben is being pulled in opposite directions.” The insider explained that Lopez has been urging Affleck to spend more time with her, especially as they continue to navigate their “blended family” dynamic.

“On one hand, J. Lo is telling him he should be spending more time with her because the blended family situation is so new,” the source shared. “She feels it’s vital that they all get off to a good start following the divorce and just establish a pattern.”

Meanwhile, Garner—who shares three children with Affleck, Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel—has been encouraging him to prioritize family time with their kids.

“And then he has Jen pushing him to spend time with her and their kids together,” the source added, referring to Garner, who has been in a long-term relationship with businessman John Miller.

Despite her own romantic life moving forward, Garner has made it clear that she wants Affleck to remain a constant presence in their children’s lives. A previous PEOPLE Magazine report underscored this sentiment, with a source stating, “Jen truly just wants her kids to be happy.”

The insider elaborated, “She will continue to make sure that they spend time together as a family and include Ben.” Although Lopez and Garner both share a mutual respect for Affleck’s role as a father, the competing priorities have reportedly created strain.

The source noted, “Jen’s grateful that Ben’s doing well,” while clarifying that there is no romantic reconciliation on the table for Garner and Affleck. “Despite their shared respect for each other, nothing can bloom between the two.”

For now, Affleck finds himself balancing the demands of his current marriage with Lopez and his longstanding co-parenting dynamic with Garner. The situation highlights the complexities of blended families, where personal boundaries and shared responsibilities often collide.

As both Jennifers prioritize family happiness in their own ways, Affleck’s ability to navigate the tension will be key to maintaining peace between the two.